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Bother / Unable to send a messege...
« on: November 04, 2020, 04:20:29 PM »
I get a 403 on firefox, windows 10 pro, when I try to submit for a reply to your message Chaz....

Ironically this was what I was trying to send:

"No problem. I had a little trouble getting the message system to work. Sorry if it shot off more than one copy but it threw an error several times the other day. "

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Open Discussion / Tell us about your current contemplations!
« on: October 01, 2020, 01:44:39 AM »
There are sooo many different facets of wisdom, so many different experiences and considerations which relate to Buddhism and Buddhist teaching. Each of us has been contemplating a specific thing or set of things I would estimate. Perhaps even more than one.

What have you all been working on?

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Danger Zone / Forgiving the Views of others.
« on: September 25, 2020, 03:03:15 AM »

Opinion: One of the greatest causes of drama is having Views, I know this is ironic, but there is "Right View".  The following is from me, to you. It contains notations about difficult things. I suspect they may cause drama.

I work in a prison. My views are not the views of my department. I think It is important to explain my career for a few reasons. In the common way of saying it, I deal with Murderers, Rapists, Child Molesters, Violent criminals, Drug Addicts, Thieves, and Liars....There are probably some categories I have missed, but I think the notion is clear.

Why did I say "In the common way of saying it?"....Because the truth is vastly more, but also very simple: I deal with people who have committed the acts that have made them labeled by others as this this type of person or that type of person. Like the list I offer above. The truth is not contained in the labels, just a shallow reflection of the truth and judgment and perhaps some ego. It's not that these people are good, or bad, its just that the labels they receive as the result of one thing are not accurate for their entire being as much as an indication of actions that they have taken which others have given them titles for.  Often the views of the people in the position to be labeled, those crimes they have committed, they are derivative of views that lead them to a path which brought them and others great suffering and difficulties. Once views become this wrong, it is hard to imagine that later other bad actions would not lay upon the foundations of such views. So the labels we use have always been a mechanism to keep us safe I think, to tell others of danger, and to mark who we can and cannot trust.

I also deal with officers, I am in charge of many Officers. I am a high level supervisor and second in charge of a shift of people who are very diverse, and who face a series of challenges otherwise unknown in the rest of American society outside the criminal justice field. There are many ways the officers interpret the world around them. One of the common things that brings difficulty are their views. Not because everything they see or view is incorrect, but because when they need to interact they cannot always keep clear thoughts and take the right actions and proper speech that would be most advantageous to whatever situation they face for themselves or others around them.

In 1776 the issue of slavery was a hot political topic. This was the ideological paradigm of it's day, along side liberty for all men and justice for all. The founders of America had much to say about what they referred to many times in their written opinions: "George Washington said,“there is not a man living who wishes more sincerely than I do, to see a plan adopted for the abolition of it,” and Thomas Jefferson’s original draft of the Declaration of Independence calls the slave trade an “execrable commerce” and an affront “against human nature itself.”

Today the topics of those seeking ideological Paradigms are different than in 1776. I'm not asserting the correctness or rightness of any particular view point with regards to modern topics. In this modern age the idea that we would be, in 2020,  debating the validity of the African slave trade as an American institution however is something clearly not correct because our ideals settled that specific facet of the topic (being the specifically legal institution of the slave trade at the federal level) on racism in 1865.

What changed? Men did not physically change. We have been physically the same give or take for 10,000 years at least. I purpose it was not that we changed, Humans have not changed one bit accounting for food, water and general genetic evolution of bodies. We have all of the same capacities that we have always had, all of the same faculties. It's our "times" that have changed.

What does that mean? The mountains look much as they did following the last Ice age. The sun has perhaps gotten a few inches smaller, the sky less blue, but time alone did not change our disposition towards the ideals of days long past.  It could not have, we live too short a time, in too limited a form, for a force that does not move mountains to dust in 5,000,000 years to have turned our heart to kindness by itself on any subject in the 10,000 years we have been recording our thoughts and experience in one form or another. 

Our group ideas evolve, but are leashed to their heritage, as much as we are leashed to our genetic legacy. It took time, that is to say, we used the time we had, and we changed through a co-dependent interactive and selective discernment of ideas. Our concepts are evolutions of the concepts that came before them, almost everything we know we were taught or based it on things we were taught. The speed this happens at compared to life is easy to underestimate. 

We have all been in a room with more than 20 people. It happens all of the time. As a thought experiment, or as a consideration for meditation about the influences which give rise to mental phenomenon and contribute to experience: Take those 20 people, give that they all live to 50 years of age. Lets also give that each of them has a child at 30 years old, not making a complicated statistic out of this, take them out of the room you were in with them. Set them in a line across time backwards one to the next. Each of these people got 20 years to instill tier way of seeing the world in their children and end to end those 20 people cover 1000 years of time. Consider it, a concept can travel this way. Genes don't, material doesn't, but shared ideas do.

There are 7 billion people on earth last i checked. Its a lot of groups of 20 people taken in the above context. We are awash in a maelstrom of ideas, coming to us from a long and direct history of ideas which preceded them. To quote Einstein: If I have seen further than most men it is because I have stood on the shoulders of giants. What we conceptualize is foundationally based on our understanding as we received it from others. It is Samsaric and must be contemplated carefully.

Men in prison do not understand this very often. Officers under stress do not understand this very often, liberals, conservatives, extremists all the same kind of false labels, all the same kind of misunderstanding.

When I encounter a viewpoint which I consider to be wrong. I try, though am no master, to recognize and remain compassionate about what I am hearing. The misguided man who kills his wife in a fit of rage and believes she deserved it, how much history contributed to that, what mechanism is before me which has inherited a form that looks so much like my own, sounds so much like my language, yet give the concepts of a monster when loaned an ear to be heard? 

When angry people yell about others who have different views, they cannot be giving wisdom. When I blame the murderer I keep the world safer in the conventional sense, but when hate comes into my heart instead of compassion for how lost he is, then I become lost with him.

Views often inflame people. think about the word "Inflame" To light fire to. Our predecessors recognized the phenomenon of dangerous views. Consider this: If I offer you a view that I am angry about and you agree with me, then we are angry together. If I offer you an angry view that you disagree with then you are angry at me for holding this view. Either way, I have spread the fire of my anger, and anger in this world grows. Anger is contrary to peace, and it spreads like fire.

We must be fire fighters. When we get angry at views we should ask ourselves how this came to be, how we can understand, how we can stay free of the anger which is being offered on purpose or by accident. Our feeling arise within us, we get to choose what we take when we are offered feelings, we must investigate those feeling, what gives rise to them, we must not blame others.

Other cannot have our feelings for us, no more than they can go to the bathroom for us, these are bodily functions. Remember the 19 people in history behind the person you are speaking to, that the persons formative experience and  perspective seem valid to them, and if it is clearly wrong, getting mad will not help, paying attention  being compassionate and explaining that you see where they are coming from, ask about how what they see compares to what you see. Understand them, this is the path to being at peace, You don't have to agree, just understand. If you have a strong personal integrity and a decent grasp of "Right View" and you speak truth, often you will get your point across.

If you change the mind of 20 people, and they move forward in time....We can together overcome the dangers in the future. If the Murder who killed his wife later has a child, and a new wife, I hope I stayed calm and convinced him of right and wrong. Your stakes may be different, but I ask you to be willing to change your hearts enough to consider this that I have offered.

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